The Secret to Life, Madmen, Sex and Some things In-between

Have you ever looked at a mad person? I mean really looked, noticing the facial features, hair, clothing buttons, etc? I have done that before and, like Mama Shady, I ended up wondering what was going on in her(the madwoman’s) head. What was she thinking of? Does she care about the things you and I care about? What does she think about God? All this gets me to awe at just how intriguing life is. Some of us are mad, some of aren’t. Maybe most of us are ;-). I hate it when people say that life is short – because I can’t think of anything that’s longer. Can you? Lately, however, I’ve come to realize that this statement does have a meaning : you have to live your life to the fullest; no regrets! But what is the secret to life? Life is about love. Think about it. Once you find something and/or someone (preferably both) you love, it’s all good – smooth sailing.

This short post was adapted from this week’s Comments For Beer winners. Here’s the link love:

The Church of Jacin delivers a powerful sermon on The Law of The Universe: You cannot be free of something until you love it.

Jason from Jakeldaily.com talks about how to generate free traffic to your blog by submitting your posts to news sites and social bookmarking sites.

Speaking of blogs, blueflux.net explores the ins and outs of blogging. (This blog has been built into a succesful blog without spending anything on marketing.)

Still on blogs, did you know that blogging as we know it is dead and gone? Nothing will ever be the same again – it’s the blog apocalypse! (Shokthx from digitalkeyto.info gives us this one.)

The wonderfully talented egm takes us on a journey through Boston via simply superb photographs.

Mama Shady explores the world (and intrigues) of madmen.

Finally, some sex (yes, the sex that is alluded to in the title). Aco of MyWordsOnly fame tells us why no-strings-attached sex is the best kind of sex – otherwise, sex just isn’t as fun as it can and should be.

Do you also want some Link Love from me? Well, you can have it. Just leave a relevant comment anywhere on this blog. Read the Rules.

5 Reasons Why I Blog

One of the best things about blogging is that it is not something that you can do locked up in your own little world – blogging is a community thing. Every community has rituals. Blogging has memes (how do you pronounce that again?). Collis from NorthxEast tagged me with this one so here goes:

1. I Love to Write
I may not be as good as Stephen King but I think I can write quite well, and I love doing it. As someone who loves writing, I love having people read what I write. Running a blog has to be the best way to expose my writing to as many people as possible.

2. To Act as an Example and Experiment
I know someone with a killer idea for a new blog (no you won’t get anything from me) but he has little or no experience with computers let alone the internet. This blog is an experiment we set up to test the waters, so to speak. I hope to learn certain things from it (see #4 below) and also inspire him to get his own blog.

3. To Share
I read a lot and I’d like to believe that I gain a lot from what I read. I like to share, even knowledge, and right now, blogging is the best and easiest way of sharing my knowledge, with the whole world no less. Connected to this, I blog because its fun to do so.

4. To Learn
By my own standards, I’m pretty much of an internet newbie. I don’t want this to be so(at least not much longer) therefore blogging is my own way of getting into the internet and understanding how it works. Of course, I’ll be using this new-found knowledge to start making money on the net soon.

5. I’m Addicted
As I mentioned elsewhere, I find it fascinating that I can write something while under my sheets in the bed and, almost immediately, someone from China or Australia can read it. Isn’t this cool? So I blog because I don’t want the kids in China to have fewer options of what to read while on the web.

That’s it! Now it’s my turn to do the tagging. Mama Shady, Archer, Aco, Kirima and The Fun Hunt you’re it!

In Search of Free SMS

UPDATE: If you take a look at the comments at the end of this post, you will notice some criticism. I’ve responded to these here(and also in the comments below).

Three months down the road, the most popular page in this blog is, by far, the ‘Sasanet.co.ke Opera Mini Hack.’ Everyday, I get 30-50 visitors to this page who are brought my way courtesy of google. It seems many of you are interested in sasanet, free sms and hacks. Not being one to let an opportunity go unused, I’ve decided to write more on sasanet and free sms.

Sasanet.co.ke – wtf!?

Please not that in this context, wtf has not been used to mean “where’s the fire”

Sasanet.co.ke used to be one of my favorite sites as it allowed me easy, free communication. I even came up with a hack specific to this site. Things change, however. Right now, I have an extreme dislike for sasanet.co.ke. Why?

Sasanet exhibited what I call classic jerky jock behavior. A jerky jock courts you, uses you then abuses you. Sasanet courted us by providing free sms services. I suspect this propelled them to widespread popularity and drove thousands to their site – that’s what they (sasanet) wanted. Later, they discontinued the free sms service and monetized everything on their site. See, that’s classic jerky jock. Now the thousands who visit (or used to visit) sasanet are probably either as disappointed as I am or got sucked into the ‘trap’ and now help sasanet make more money.

I’m not against making money in this way. In fact, I respect the jerky jock approach to business. However, I think the viability of this approach is ebbing away. Think web 2.0: freedom and equality geared to user (that’s you and I) satisfaction. This just goes to show that the web2.0fication of the net is not equal in all places. Kenya, evidently, still lives web 1.0.

With sasanet having gone the jerky jock way, does this spell the end of free sms services in Kenya?

There’s Always Someone Looking to Stab You in the Back and Kick You When you’re Down

The jerky jock approach is simple, fast, efficient, and makes sense (and money). As I said earlier, I think this approach cannot be used effectively anymore – it cannot work in the long run nowadays. The internet, after all, is the international network. This simply means that there is always someone somewhere who can, is and/or will compete with you.

Take sasanet, for example, they probably still make loads of money from visits to their site by people looking for free sms. Unfortunately, this is bound to be very short-term – the site’s visitors will eventually realize that sasanet cannot satisfy their need for free sms and will go looking for others who can satisfy that need. The lesson here is: do not go the jerky jock way. If you must go this way, make sure you don’t piss off your users (read customers) by keeping something, anything in it for them. Then again, if you must go this way, check your business model and re-strategize.

So, is there an alternative to sasanet.co.ke? You bet!

The Competition

Needing to send a text message to someone, for free, I went about on a search for a way to do just that. (No I’m not trying to spoil the sasanet party.) The search was too long for my liking but I did get results. The winners are:

First Prize – sms.ac: Just register as a user and you can send 3 absolutely free texts per day to anyone in the world. An added bonus: this site can help you make money. Plus, sms.ac is more than just a place to send free sms, its the largest mobile community on the net. An absolutely shocking thing about this site is that it is not ‘optimized’ for Firefox.

The also-rans: Both sendsmsnow.com and textnation.com provide free sms services. You have to register as a member of these sites before you can send any texts. A problem with these sites is that the recipient gets the sms as an email. This presents two problems:

  • Recipients must be able to receive emails on their phones.
  • Retrieving emails is not free in some countries. Countries like, you guessed it, Kenya.

So you send someone an sms and they get charged for reading it. This, in my point of view, is just plain evil good old robbery and begs the question : Isn’t safaricom even worse than a jerky jock? (I kindly ask Celtel users to elaborate on email retrieval charges, if any.)

My advice to sasanet.co.ke : find away to re-introduce the free sms service. As you can see, the competition is way behind what you used to offer (10 completely free text messages per day). It makes sense – you are likely to make more money that way. Did you know that sms.ac had, like you, scrapped free sms only to re-introduce it due to ‘public’ demand? Learn from their mistake.

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Light-Weight Browsers

I have a rusty old laptop. It is old but it has served me so well over the years that I cannot bear the thought of losing it. Therefore, I still use it from time to time. The problem is, it cannot optimally run much of today’s software. That’s fine – I can do my work and homework on the PC – but what really gets to me is that my trusty rusty laptop does not run modern browsers, even Firefox, very well. It takes a whole 15 seconds just to start Firefox. Now this is a problem because whenever I’m on the laptop I’m looking mostly to kill time and nothing beats surfing the web at killing time. I wish there was a way to enjoy the net on my old laptop. Fortunately, there is.

“The only solution is to use browsers which don’t support all the Web standards, but are much faster and require less system resources. Such programs usually don’t serve CSS, JavaScript, or more complicated HTML elements. Nevertheless, they render most pages correctly and can be successfully used in everyday work. Of course, you can’t avoid situations in which you are forced to use Mozilla (or a similar browser).

Weak computing power isn’t the only factor in favor of lightweight browsers. Others include: individual preferences, the graphics environment being used (some of the mentioned browsers don’t need X), and operating system configuration. Lightweight Web browsers are useful and important.” (from site)

That’s a quote from Freshmeat where they review four light-weight browsers. Click here to read the rest of the review(with links to the browsers). If you just want the links to the browsers, here they are:

Happy downloading! (They’re all free.)

Alternatives To Blogging

Sometimes it gets to me. Blogging can be tough. So tough that sometimes I wonder, is there an easier way to do it than write consistently and continuously? There are probably very many reasons why people abandon their personal blogs or never start one in the first place. I bet you’ve heard, “I don’t have that much time” or ” I don’t have anything to write about” before.

I think nothing can beat the good old variety of blogging (in which this blog falls) that we know but here is an interesting alternative: Tumblr. “Tumblr is your friendly and free tool for creating tumblelogs. What is a tumblelog? To make a simple analogy: If blogs are journals, tumblelogs are scrapbooks. You can also look at tumblelogs as slightly more structured blogs that make it easier, faster, and more fun to post and share stuff you find or create. You can find more information on Wikipedia. ” (from site)

Lifehacker gives a very detailed guide to tumbling.

Happy tumbling!!

When Blogging Gets Too Tough

In my opinion, blogging isn’t for the weak-willed. Before one decides to go into blogging, one should think clearly on whether he/she can take the challenges that the blogosphere brings.

I admit, if approached in the right way, blogging is mostly fun. Therefore, before you start to blog, examine yourself and your intentions and figure out whether you can have fun blogging. If you cannot, then do not blog. Blogging is basically about writing – can you write consistently over an extended period of time? Take a look at Erick’s reasons for not blogging. Is blogging still for you?

This post isn’t about discouraging would-be bloggers. In actual fact, I’m aiming to address blogger’s block: a condition of blogger disillusionment where you feel ‘tired’ of blogging and, obviously, your blog suffers. My reasoning is simple: if you got into blogging for the right reasons and understood what you were getting yourself into, blogger’s block won’t hit you so hard.

It does, however, hit everyone once in a while. Here’s how I recommend dealing with it:

  1. Take a break. Go for a long walk, do some gardening, go on a date – do anything to get you off the computer.
  2. If this doesn’t work then go to a library near you and just browse through books you find interesting (you can do this on the net but I recommend getting off it). Alternatively, go crazy with the papers and read to your heart’s content. If you cannot do either of the above or you just can’t pull away from the computer, try stumbling aimlessly for hours and hours (and get a check up for cannot-get-off-the-computer-syndrome).
  3. If, by now, you haven’t got blogging back into your system, consider taking an extended amount of time off blogging. Go on holiday.

Useful links on combating blogger’s block:
Battling Bloggers Block
Hack Your Way Out of Writers block
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How to Win a 30GB Microsoft Zune

Take a look at these specs(courtesy of thetechzone):

  • 30 GB 1.8-inch hard drive (Toshiba)
  • Support for a variety of music, video, and picture formats including MP3, ASF, WMA, WMV, MP4, MPEG-4, JPEG, and AAC’
  • 3-inch QVGA LCD display, 65k color
  • Radio Data System (RDS) enabled FM receiver
  • Integrated 802.11b/g WiFi
  • Up to 14 hours of audio playback, 4 hours of video or pictures (under optimal conditions)
  • 4.4 × 2.4 × 0.58-inch (11.2 × 6.1 × 1.4 cm)
  • 5.6 ounces (158.8 grams)
  • CPU: Freescale i. MX31L processor; ARM Core, FPU (SCIMX31LVKM5 / 3L38W / CTAU0629)
  • RAM: 64 MBytes x32 Mobile SDR DRAM / 133 MHz / 90 mA (K4M51323PC-DG75)
  • Flash: 2 MBytes NOR flash, 3.3V, 1Mx16 Boot block (PH28F160C3TD)
  • TV-out
  • USB 2.0
  • Included in the box: earphones, USB data cable, carrying pouch

The 30 Gig Zune is definitely a heavy hitter. Here’s how to win one for yourself: John Chow dot Com, a blog that helps you make money on the internet, is giving away a Microsoft Zune. To enter, all you have to do is write about it. Unfortunately, that means only those of you who have blogs can try your luck in this one.

Happy Blogging!